Sunday, October 25, 2020

A WORD FROM THE PASTOR…..  For everything  there is a season and a  time for every purpose under heaven (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

So here we are in the season of fall.  The nights are getting longer, the leaves are falling rapidly from the trees, fields have been harvested or mowed in preparation for a time of rest…  Halloween with memories of bags filled with candy, giddy children walking sidewalks in twilight, the adventure and fun of costumes and masks and “being” someone or something else for a while arrives this week.  All seems the same – all seems different.  Though the seasons change around us, we are still living in the season of COVID and the end of that season keeps shifting further away from our grasp.  This election year has added to our uncertainties and anxieties about our personal and national future.  Predictions of the weather foretell a “hard” winter – or a mild, wet one.  No one seems to know, adding to uncertainty.  It is a “season” of stress, tension, anxiety and we are all stretched further than we have ever been in our lives (at least most of us are).  

Let me assure you all, that even in this season of challenge, at the church, we are moving ahead in faith that the future will be filled with God’s presence and with confidence that God’s will for us is always good.  As we meet for worship, hold meetings, and provide necessary ministries to our members and the community, we are always stepping into “unknown” territory but we are adapting and adjusting.  Here again, things are the same – but also different.  Our worship, meetings and other ways of being together are both in person and remote.  This is a challenge for us, but we are adapting and our worship participation averages between 40 and 55 users (with more than one participant per use in many cases which means our attendance is greater than pre-COVID), our meetings are well attended, and we are looking further into ways to use technology to help us connect.   Our next challenge/opportunity is to find ways to connect for conversation and study groups, children’s Christian Education, and other small group meetings.  This will be our focus for the next few months, along with figuring out ways to have rich and special worship during Advent and Christmas.  We will have more information about this as things fall into place and as we get closer to the Season.  

I want to thank you for your support during this “season” of change.  Many of us are challenged by the uncertainty and anxiety of this time, but I am truly grateful for the ongoing attention to and support of UMD.  Our finances are stable, our meetings have continued and major planning and much work has been accomplished or is in progress.  We are stabilizing and gaining strength for the next “season”.  God is truly blessing us with grace and leading us into a future that is filled with hope!

In the meantime, please don’t hesitate to be in touch and to help me to stay connected with you, especially in times of need.  Though COVID means I can’t visit in the hospital or nursing homes and must be very careful about home visits, I am always available to talk with you by phone or email.  Be certain that I pray for you, I love you and I need you to survive!

Peace,

Pastor Betsy 

Pastor Ott is presently at half-time hours which means she will be in the church for Sunday worship and in the office on average two times a week, usually on days when there are meetings.  Friday is usually sermon preparation day, at home.  

 Pastor’s Office hours this week:  Tuesday 10/27, Wednesday 10/28  

Sunday, September 6, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ,

Greetings in the name of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ who is the Healer of our brokenness and the Prince of Peace!

It’s hard for me to get my head around the fact that it’s Labor Day Weekend!  The summer has slipped by and the days are shortening as the weather begins to feel like fall.  I don’t know about you but I’m savoring every moment I can of these days before we put our summer things away and bring on winter activities – which for me include a lot of book reading and planning for the holidays!

This week, classes are supposed to begin at DA and we are praying for the students and teachers here and across the nation as we face the challenge of teaching our children while keeping everyone safe.  As you know, SUNY Oneonta has closed for the fall semester and the students have been asked to go home.  This is a hard blow for them and for that community, as the income the students bring to stores and rentals and restaurants is lost.  For the students and their parents, this is also a disappointment and a challenge as they try to figure out how the access their classes and manage life at home, again.  This is saddest for those students who did practice social distancing and comply with safe protocols, whose education was interrupted by those who did not.  I hope that we at The United Ministry are continuing to pray at 8 am and/or 8 pm, daily, for our nation and the world as the pandemic continues to impact the lives of children, youth, families, and the elderly.  Please also pray for those who are facing recovery from storms, hurricanes, wildfires and other life challenges during this time.  We need to remember that life goes on and things like sickness and suffering continue, even without the COVID crisis. 

That said, don’t forget to give thanks daily for your blessings!  We are still alive and mostly staying safe and well.  We have enjoyed the connections that we have during this time and have even found new ways to stay in contact with others.  We are learning the value of friends and family and loved ones in a new and more meaningful way than ever before.  We have food on our tables and safe places to call home.  And, we are re-opening our church for Sunday worship!  Next week, September 13th, we will return to our sanctuary for our regular weekly service!  It has been a long time since we’ve been together and it is reason to give thanks to God that we are able to gather, once again!  As you know, some things will be different and our protocols, created to protect ourselves and others, will take some getting used to.  But we will experience fellowship (from a social distance), and music (though without singing), and hear God’s word together with others.  We will also celebrate Holy Communion.  And we will, for the first time, provide live streaming so that people who don’t feel comfortable meeting in church or who aren’t able to be with us, can experience worship from home or by accessing the link on the website during the week.  This allows more people to participate, including people who don’t feel safe meeting with others, those whose schedules don’t allow them to be present at the specific worship hour, and others who might just be “visiting” in search of a church to join.  This is 21st century evangelism – and it is one of the benefits of this challenging time that we are adapting to!  Praise God!

As far as other updates go, the trustees are finishing projects that will make the property and building safer and more inviting including: repairs to sidewalks and the back of the sanctuary wall, downstairs bathrooms, work in the Playschool, and completion of painting projects.  The staff is working hard to be ready for our fall worship with projection and live streaming.  The building is getting its final cleaning for reopening and the return of some use by outside groups.  The Playschool is preparing for opening on September 14th with COVID protocols and equipment in place for the safety of students, teachers and families.  Things are buzzing as we get ready to open our doors and welcome those who enter!  Please keep us in your prayers during these busy days – as we pray for you, our community and the world during this time! 

I look forward to seeing you but, as I’ve said before, I also understand if you choose not to be physically present at church.  I hope you’ll be able to join with us in worship – from a distance.  And remember – I love you and I need you to survive!

Peace,
Betsy

Sunday, August 30, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ,

Greetings in the name of the One True God, Creator – Son – and Holy Spirit!

My thoughts have wandered a bit this week, as the seasons begin to shift from the hot days of mid-summer to the cooler nights and milder days that lead toward autumn.  I confess that I still feel a yearning to get ready for school after so many years of the annual preparations for myself and my children!  It is a sweet time, filled with many memories of teachers, classmates, new clothes (a bit too big to start the year and a bit too small at the end!), and the chance, the excitement, the adventure of learning something new or making a new friend or finding a new interest.  This time of year is a time of expectation and it seems to settle into our bones – even when it no longer relates what’s happing in our personal life experience.  However, I do feel excitement about the return to worshiping in church, scheduled for Sunday, September 13th!  It will be a new adventure with the opportunity for all of us to grow and learn to do things in new ways.  I pray the God will bless us all as we take steps in this direction!

Still, this year continues to be a strange time as COVID remains a focus in all of our lives.  There is so much uncertainty about the reopening of schools and how to safely educate our children, youth and young adults as new information emerges every day about the infection rates and risks.  Children are not immune, though that was an early assumption because they don’t always have symptoms that are recognized as COVID related.  The biggest factor in passing the infection now appears to be the vapor that suspends in the air as we breathe in and out.  This makes masking an absolute necessity and continues to affect what we can safely do.  The vapors are now found to remain in the air longer than originally thought and social distancing is also required to reduce the risk of contact.  Our church protocols require both masks and social distancing for safety.  Additionally, we will not be singing in worship services until there is a safe way for us to do so.  As you know, this is heart-breaking for many of us who love to sing, who recognize that song is prayer, and who find a spiritual connection with God through the musical offerings of the choir and others. 

As I’ve said before, the focus of all that we’re doing is to abide by the first mandates of the Gospel which are to “Love one another” and “Do to others as you would have them do to you.”  Caring for each person, including putting aside our own wants and desires so that others are protected is Christ-based.  Additionally, there is another mandate in the scriptures, “Do not tempt the Lord your God.” (Matthew 4:7).   Do you remember that one?  It’s in the story of Jesus’ temptation as the devil challenges him to go to the holy city and throw himself down from the highest mountain so that God will save him.  Now the older I get the more clearly I see that the three temptation of Christ are the very same temptations we all confront as his followers.  We can be tempted to think that taking care of people’s material needs is all that’s required of us (bread) but the scripture tells us that the spiritual needs are what God is focused on (Man does not live by bread alone).  We can all think that if we could only rule the world and change the systems that people live by, things would be better.  The devil offered Christ the greatest thrones on earth but Jesus commanded Satan to leave and said, “Serve only God!”  And when we want miracles to save us, even from our own behaviors, we are tempting God to help us out of our own messes.  COVID parties among young people have become a means of transmission to grandparents, children and health care workers.  Carelessly refusing to wear a mask because “I don’t need one” or “I don’t like it” or “It’s a hoax” has led to increased infections and, yes, deaths.  The scriptural message is that in Jesus’ teaching we find that we are expected to use our own good judgement and not put ourselves and others at risk of harm with the idea that God’s going to come to our rescue.  I hope we, will each continue to pray at 8 am or 8 pm, daily, for God’s help in addressing the situation in ways that help others to see God’s love and care for each person expressed in how we, ourselves, choose to behave. 

That said, I want you to remember that while I do hope to see you all very soon – I understand that worshiping in church is a personal decision and that you should feel safe and comfortable whatever you decide.  You may want to remain at home for a while or longer or until there is a vaccine.  You may want to return right away.  Whatever you decide, know that you have my full support and understanding!

I’m in the office and working with the staff to complete building projects and get our worship technology in place!  I look forward to seeing you whenever possible and, don’t forget – I love you and I need you to survive!

Peace,
Pastor Betsy

Sunday, August 23, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ,

I greet you in the name of the glorious Savior who is the healer of our brokenness and of the world. 

Well, another week has passed and there is still uncertainty about where we’re “at” with the COVID pandemic.  Things in Delaware County are good for now with “0” new infections reported.  However, the testing has been reduced so that raises some questions about what is really happening.  That, coupled with school re-openings and reports of increased infection rates, the virus carried by children, and youth and young adults who won’t abide by safe practices, increases our concern.  I hope that you are continuing with the prayers for all impacted during this time and for God’s help in guiding us through these days, safely, and with care for all. 

This week at the church we have continued to be busy ourselves with preparations for our re-opening.  MacIntosh Hall and the hallway outside the basement floor bathrooms have been painted and that project is now complete (or nearly so).  The next painting will be in the Playschool Bathroom and classroom 5 & 6.  After that we will put down our paintbrushes and clean the rooms for re-opening.  This means that our sexton will ready the rooms in the building for our return to worship and for the start of limited use by outside groups.  Presently we are working with AlAnon, Boy Scouts and Red Cross who are each preparing a fall schedule.  We have their protocols and they have each received United Ministry’s protocols for outside group use.  Hopefully, we can arrange to start after the congregation returns to the building for worship.  Please be assured that the protocols are very complete and have specific requirements for each group to follow.  In addition, each room used and the bathroom assigned to the group will be cleaned after each use and before any other group is admitted.  We are doing all we can to prevent infection, with the understanding that we can’t completely protect.  Everyone must make their own decisions about how and when to be in group situations with others.  The safety of all, including our church cleaner, Evelyn Jacksto, is primary!  We also expect that the Playschool will open after the first week of classes at DA, per the usual schedule.  Again, protocols are in place to assure the protection of the children, staff and families.  I ask for your prayers at this time of both excitement and uncertainty for all involved. 

On Friday, August 21st, I wrote a letter that summarizes the results of the Church Opening Survey.  The letter has been emailed and sent through US Mail (to any who don’t receive email).  I really appreciate everyone who took the time to respond to the survey and the thoughtful answers given to the questions.  Most are missing church and the fellowship and music.  Many don’t feel comfortable returning, though some are more than ready to get back.  Others had some specific questions and concerns.  I hope you’ll take a look at the letter to see the survey results and some answers I’ve provided to the questions that were raised.  The good news is that we have a reopening date!  Pat Nabinger, Deb Kearney, Chelsea Frisbee and I have agreed that we will be ready to worship and live stream on Sunday, September 13th.  Pat is working on some music for both organ and piano that will bring us together as we hear the hymns and songs we have missed!  Deb has been putting together our worship service for projection and Chelsea is setting up for the projection and live streaming.  I’m working on a service that will acknowledge the time that’s passed since we were together and celebrates the joyful new beginning God provides.  I hope that you’ll join us in person – or remotely.  I completely support your decision, either way. 

As the season begins to shift once again, there is much going on in our lives, our community and the world.  Let’s keep praying for God’s help and strength to carry us through!  You remain in my prayers.  I love you and I need you to survive,

Peace,
Pastor Betsy    

Sunday, August 16, 2020

Dear Friends In Christ,

I greet you in the name of God the Creator, Christ the Son, and the Holy Spirit who breathes into us the power that transforms each of us and the world into the Kin-dom!

I hope you’re each well as we enjoy these August days.  I admit I do find it difficult to imagine that Labor Day is only a few days away and that the time is coming when we will say goodbye to summer and welcome fall.  I’m resolved to enjoy these warm and pleasant days as much as possible – and hope you’re each doing the same!

The news reports continue to provide us with what seems to be conflicting information about the COVID pandemic, even as we struggle to resume some of the “normal” parts of our lives.  It is clear that children will return to school and that there are risks for everyone involved.  The pandemic places parents in the incredibly challenging position of trying to determine how to keep their children safe while also securing their education.  Here is Delaware County, the rate of COVID infection is nearly non-existent at this time, however the concern about what lies ahead is both realistic and ever-present.  In addition, as a community and as a nation, we continue to face challenges in how to be supportive of those whose job loss/cut back have impacted their ability to pay their bills and feed their families.  And as we struggle with those realities, life continues on…with hurricanes, and fires and human made disasters – to say nothing of our own challenges with family, our health, our daily struggles and losses.  I hope that you’re remembering or even re-reading my earlier updates with a focus on grief, challenges to change, adaptability and the Three Simple Rules of John Wesley – Do Good, Do No Harm and Staying In Love With God.  Most of all, I hope that these ideas are helpful to you as we each navigate this uncertain and challenging time.  I am especially focused on not losing hope as information comes out about the virus that is sometimes conflicting and confusing.  Remembering that everyone is “learning as we go” (even scientists and researchers) can help us stay positive and hopeful.  Each new bit of information will be helpful in putting together our new post- COVID lives, even if COVID remains with us for longer than any of us expected.  Doing our due diligence which means social distancing, wearing masks, washing hands and staying away from others any time we feel sick or aren’t certain about our health.  I’ve been thinking a lot about those who aren’t doing those things and how fearful they must be to feel so out of control that they put themselves and others at risk by their behavior.  I am asking that we continue our daily prayers at 8 am and/or 8 pm for those who are returning to school and for the parents, for all who are struggling to survive the economic challenges brought on by COVID, for all who are experiencing anxiety and for those who are failing to care about themselves and others by not following the recommended protocols.

Now for an update on things happening at the church!  We are receiving survey responses which are very helpful in knowing where we are as we return to worship.  I will give a report by email and regular mail later this week.  Thank you to all who have replied!   We will resume the painting of some of our downstairs rooms this week.  The outside work is being done on the building which will stop the foundation leaks near the downstairs bathrooms.  Sidewalks are being repaired and the garden has been beautifully restored.  Hand sanitizers are installed and we are working to complete the signage in and out of the building.  Playschool is gearing up for a fall opening.  The screens are installed in the sanctuary and we are working on the technology that will allow for service projection and live streaming.  Once those systems are all in place and we have a smoothly running operation, we will be as ready as we can be!  I’m excited about being back with you in church and worshiping with you remotely.  The technology offers us more options to be together – even when we are apart!  It also provides a way for us to reach out to others in our community and to expand our ministry.  In my opinion, this is a wonderful benefit of the changes we are making in our worship service.  Please join with me in praying that God will bless this ministry and that through this time more people will share in the Good News!

Be sure that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  Be sure, too, that I am struggling with you to face the challenges of this time with faith and hope that God will bring us through to a better place.  I do believe that if we keep that faith, we will find we have been given a tremendous opportunity to grow and become stronger and more able disciples.   Most of all, know that I love you and I need you to survive!

Peace,
Pastor Betsy

Sunday, August 9, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ Jesus,

Greetings to you in the name of the One True Lord who is Jesus the Christ!

As we have come through another week, I hope that you are each staying safe and well. As for me, I, am doing fine but have had several unexpected things come up during the week, including having my daughter and son- in-law with their three children staying with me for several days. They had a power outage due to Isaias and were unable to remain at home. Most of all I’m grateful that they are safe! One of the things we’ve all been discussing during our time together is what to do about return to school and how safe it will be to place children in nursery school/day care. I know that many of our families with children/grandchildren and those of us with connections to children through friends and neighbors, are also struggling with how to provide for children’s education while keeping them safe. Clearly, the early reports from states where children have already returned to school cause some concern as spikes in infection occur. The truth remains that there is much we don’t know yet about COVID and our wisest course of action is to continue to take the recommended precautions, seriously. This includes social distancing, hand washing, wearing a mask and avoiding others when we or they aren’t feeling well. We will all have to see how things unfold as we hope for a vaccination and more medical information to protect ourselves and others. As teachers, staff, children and parents prepare to return to school in a few weeks, let’s remember to pray for them and for our communities as we continue to find ways to address this situation, safely.

I also know that some of us are uncertain about returning to worship at this time while others are very anxious to get back to church and reconnect with friends in worship. Let me be very clear that no one should feel uncomfortable about participating in worship in whatever way makes them most comfortable – including remaining at home, livestreaming or engaging in worship online. This is a personal decision with many implications for each individual based on their health and comfort. That said, here is an update regarding our reopening. First, our reopening protocols have been approved by the District Superintendent and were sent to each member of the congregation for you to read. They are also on our church webpage. Included with the protocols is a brief survey which we are asking you to complete and return to the church office by August 15th. The survey will help us to better understand your feelings and thoughts about our reopening, including any concerns you want to share. We are still working on getting all the technology in place and continue to prepare for projected worship, live streaming and links to the webpage. I am hopeful that we can have everything done very soon so that we can reopen before the end of August. There are also a few remaining things to be completed by the trustees to ready the building for our return, including placement of hand sanitizers and signage, moving the piano and placement of the screens in the sanctuary. By the way, we are using stands for the screens so that they will be completely movable and will not be affixed to any sanctuary walls or pillars. As soon as all the ongoing work is completed, an announcement will be made with a reopening date for our worship time together. I am very excited as I look forward to being with you again and to share with you in this next phase of our journey together!

As we continue to navigate the COVID realities, I ask that we continue to hold one another in prayer and support. I am deeply impressed at the connections and bonds that have continued to remain strong among us during this time. I am also impressed with the emphasis on ministry that remains the focus of the congregation, even during these times of incredible challenge. Thank you for all that you are doing to stay faithful to the Gospel!

And now, remember that I love you and I need you to survive!
Peace,
Betsy

August 2, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ,

Grace and Peace to you in the glorious name of Jesus, the Prince of Peace and the Living Word!

Today I have some good news to share with you!  Our United Ministry COVID Worship Protocols have been approved by the District Superintendent and we are authorized to reopen our church for worship!  I want to express my thanks to all who have worked to bring us to this place including: staff, trustees, members of the COVID Task Force, and the Church Council members.  On Monday, August 3rd, we will be sending out the Worship Protocols to every member by email and (for those who don’t receive email) by regular U.S. mailing.  Additionally, the protocols will be posted on our church website.  Please do take time to carefully read the protocols, so that you have an understanding of what to expect when we return to worship.  In addition, a brief survey will be included with the protocols.  Please take the time to complete and return the survey!!!  Your input, including your concerns and questions, are very important to us as we move to the next phase in our planning.  That said, it will take a little while for us to receive, read and reply to the surveys.  I don’t expect that we will be able to reply to each question, individually, but I am hopeful that some of the questions/concerns will apply to more than one person so that we can respond to the primary concerns in a group message.  If you have any questions or additional concerns that aren’t covered, please do contact the church office.  I will be glad to speak with you by phone, email or through in person meetings (with social distancing and masks). 

In the meantime, we have other good news.  A sound check in the sanctuary has been completed and we can live stream both music from piano and organ, and also spoken words.  The service outline for coming Sundays is being developed and we are beginning preparations for our first gatherings.  Our new technology is almost completely set up so that our services can be projected and live streamed.  We will also be attaching the video of our service to our web page for those who want to worship but are unable to participate on Sundays at 10 am.  Another bit of good news is that we have received grants from both the Presbytery and the New York Annual Conference of the United Methodist Church in the total amount of $1300.  This has helped us to cover the costs of items purchased and we are very thankful!

The building continues to be readied for our return to worship and prepared for church meetings and outside/community use.  We hope we can begin to reopen to these groups after September 1st and I will keep you posted as things continue to move ahead. 

As we continue prepare to reopen, we are faced with continued challenge and uncertainty in the world and in our lives.  The pandemic continues to spread and we have learned that it is true, COVID knows no gender or race or political affiliation or boundary – the virus will infect anyone.  This means we are called to pray for all people everywhere who are at risk – elderly and able bodied, young and at high risk, children and infants, black or white or Asian, rich or poor, Christian and Muslims and Jews and all others….there is no limit to those in need of our prayers for safety and wellness.  We are also praying for schools and teachers and students as difficult decisions are made about if/how to reopen.  The economic toll is just beginning to become clear and, though we have not been heavily impacted, locally, (yet) there is a growing need to be prepared to help to those in need as the pandemic continues.  I am thankful for the generous support provided to our Food Pantry.  Please watch for updates in the coming weeks as we wait to see if there is any uptick in local requests for help and please continue to pray for those most affected by hunger and want during this time.  Our health care workers and those on the frontlines need our prayers.  Leaders and those making unpopular decisions need prayers for courage and strength.  And we know that all those whose grief has them locked in anger and denial need prayer for peace of heart and understanding. 

I conclude this week’s update with a prayer, attributed to St. Francis (though most certainly written anonymously by someone else):
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.  Where there is hatred, let me bring love.  Where this is offence, let me bring pardon.  Where there is discord, let me bring union.  Where there is error, let me bring truth.  Where there is doubt, let me bring faith.  Where there is despair, let me bring hope.  Where there is darkness, let me bring your light.  Where there is sadness, let me bring joy.  O Master, let me not seek so much to be consoled as to console, to be understood as to understand, to be loved as to love.  For it is in giving that one receives, it is in self-forgetting that one finds, it is in pardoning that one is pardoned, it is in dying that one is raised to eternal life.  Amen.

I look forward to seeing you again before too long.  As we continue to support one another with our prayers, remember that I pray for you, I love you, and I need you to survive!

Peace,
Betsy

Sunday, July 26, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ,

Greeting to you in the name of Jesus Christ, the Savior of the World, the Prince of Peace and the Healer of our Brokenness.

I pray that you are remaining safe and well.  As the uncertainty about the end of the COVID pandemic continues, I am asking that we all continue to pray at 8 am and/or 8 pm daily for one another, our community, our nation and the world.  I know that you each have your own stories to tell about how COVID and these times of social change are affecting you, your loved one and your friends.  I’ve talked to several people in the healthcare industry lately and the challenges they are facing continue.  On a personal note, my brother had planned to come to Franklin in early August for a family gathering but had to cancel because Indiana is now on the NY quarantine list.  I was also horrified to hear that there is a COVID related death every 8 minutes in Florida and that Texas, Arizona and California are also at or nearing that level of loss.  Sadly, there is a report in Delaware County that a church in Walton has a warning out to people who attended a recent Saturday evening event and Sunday morning worship service where a person with COVID participated.  I have also heard that some local churches are not practicing social distancing, wearing masks, cleaning the sanctuary after use, and continue to sing hymns and have a choir. To continue to operate without updated protocols, place all participants at high risk of infection.  Like many of you, I find myself asking – why?  Why is it so difficult to understand that if we don’t all get on board with safe practices our nation and our neighbors will continue to suffer?

This morning I read an article that addressed this very question which was titled – Why don’t men wear masks?  The reason for singling out men is simple.  Statistically, more women than men will voluntarily wear a face mask and comply with social distancing practices.  The reason is complicated but is rooted in the reality that men, in our culture, are supposed to be strong, brave and invincible (Think of the old Marlboro man commercials or western movie heroes, if your memory goes back that far.)  We have, traditionally, placed our men in more high risk situations and engrained in them a sense that in order to protect others, they have to be able to conquer danger on their own.  So, as a result, we have men who refuse to wear masks, or wear them ineffectively by covering only the mouth and not the nose and mouth, and who may become angry when confronted.  In fact, the direct approach won’t work and actually escalates the problem.  Emotional appeals won’t help.  What does help, the article reported, is a very practical solution – herd mentality.  If everyone (or nearly everyone) is wearing masks, the men who think that conforming makes them look weak and silly, will eventually wear them, too.  Mandated mask wearing across the nation is the best way to reduce infection rates and help us to control the crisis until a vaccination is found. 

It makes me think of what is called, the Methodist quadrilateral, which is based on the writings and teachings of John Wesley where he spoke of scripture, tradition, reason and experience as our source of decision-making.  For Wesley, the primary place to go when confronting a challenge or life question was to turn to scripture – asking what does the Bible say about this?  The second resource is tradition – asking what does past history (especially the Christian faith tradition) have to tell us?  Third, is to use reason – the God given judgement and intellectual abilities we have to figure things out.  And fourth is experience – asking what does my own life experience and that of others tell me about this situation?  So, if we apply the quadrilateral to the question of COVID, we find that we are told in scripture to “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” (Luke 6:31).  In this case, the meaning is that if we want others to care about us, then we need to demonstrate care for them – and that means doing all we can to protect others from harm and infection.  Tradition shows us that, over time, the church has modified our rituals and services to protect others from harm.  For example, in the early 20th century, we began to use individual communion cups to reduce the risk of tuberculosis.  Reason says we should listen to what the experts are telling us and use our own common sense and judgement to help is make smart decisions.  And experience tells us that getting sick, no matter what the cause, isn’t fun and shouldn’t be spread to other people (especially people who are high risk) if at all avoidable.  It is my hope and prayer that we can begin to focus on the health and well-being of others so we can focus more energy on the other challenges brought about by COVID, such as high unemployment, economic uncertainty, and the fear and anxiety that seem to be always with us these days. 

That said, here at United Ministry we have submitted our reopening protocol to DS, Karen Monk and are waiting to hear from her with the approval to reopen for worship in early August.  Once we have the green light, you will receive a copy of the newly adopted protocols with a brief questionnaire about your feelings and thoughts about coming back to church.  The trustees are actively working to ready the building for our return and most of the things we need are in place or will be soon.  I can feel my spirits lifting as I think about seeing you again and how wonderful it will be! We are currently at Level IV and are cleared to have up to 33% of the total number allowed in the worship space, wearing masks and socially distancing.   However, we all need to remain aware that the state could, at any time, restrict the number allowed in worship and that our neighbors who aren’t abiding by the current regulations are putting us all at risk for continued delays in reopening.  We will go ahead with the hope in place that this number won’t be changed but, if it is reduced, we will put our return to worship on hold until the number is increased.  Please pray for the safety of all and the wisdom needed for each of us to care for others as we would like them to care for us. 

I have been working from home quite a bit this July and am trying to complete many of my projects that were not completed last summer or have been put on hold over the year.  Things are going well and my decks are freshly washed and stained, rooms painted, and outside doors repainted.  I only wish the weather was a bit cooler as it has been very hot going the past two weeks!  I will be in the church office more during August as we continue to ready the church for opening and welcome the return of outside groups. 

I hope that you each continue to stay strong, safe and well.  If you, or anyone you know, is in need of prayer or pastoral support, please be sure to let me know.  Also, our Food Pantry is open and supporting those in need of assistance.  Please do share that information with anyone who might need to know – we are expecting there may be an increased need as unemployment benefits are reduced and other feeding programs are stopped or cancelled until fall. 

For now, that’s my update for you.  Know that you are in my prayers and remember, I love you and I need you to survive.

Peace,
Betsy

July 19, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ Jesus,

Greetings in the name of our Lord, Jesus Christ, the Savior and Healer of the world!

I pray that you are each well and continue to stay safe during the COVID pandemic. I had a text this morning from a friend in Pennsylvania where they are shutting down again after a spike in infections.  She said, “What a mess!” and it certainly does feel that way.  A news article this week reported the experts saying we could get through the worst if everyone in the country would wear masks for four-six weeks.  It sounds so simple but the reality is that this pandemic, sadly, has been politicized and now divides us instead of uniting us.  It makes me wonder how we will ever win the battle against this virus if we aren’t all dedicated to the single purpose of reducing infection and loss of life.  I’m asking for us continue to pray for all those in the front lines of the overburdened hospitals and health care facilities, those who struggle to remain safe in their work and home settings, and those who are sick or grieving the loss of loved ones.  We are still praying at 8 am and 8 pm, daily, for our church, community, the nation and the world!

Now for updates on the status of our work at United Ministry.   This week all the required paperwork for reopening was submitted to DS, Karen Monk.   Once I’ve heard from Rev. Monk, I will ask Deb to send out the worship protocols and a brief survey asking how you feel about returning to worship, especially how safe you will feel once you’ve seen our action plans.  I hope you’ll all take the few moments to give us your feedback!

While we wait for DS Monk’s approval, we a completing a number of tasks that must be done to assure we’re ready for reopening, including:  signage for the church doors and building regarding our COVID protocols, installation of projection screens in the sanctuary, trial-runs for our streamed worship services, and placement of needed supplies throughout the building.  The good news is that our technology and equipment have arrived and we can begin to set things in place!  Dates have been scheduled for trial-runs with Chelsea Frisbee who will do sound and equipment checks with Pat Nabinger and myself so that our worship services go smoothly.  The supplies, such as hand sanitizers, etc. are in the building and will be installed within the next two weeks. In addition, Bibles and hymnals have been removed from the sanctuary and other meeting rooms and are safely stored for future use.  Windows and curtains throughout the building have been cleaned and we have scheduled proposed dates in August to complete the painting.  The trustees are working on the repairs needed including the outside wall/foundation, downstairs bathrooms, floors and walkways, which should be done by September.  In addition, a gardener has been found and our garden will be cleaned up and restored, shortly.  Deb Kearney and I are planning a very abbreviated newsletter, which will be sent in August or early September, as we start to resume worship and possibly other small group meetings.  Now, I’m just waiting to hear that we can increase our worship attendance so that we are able to seat all our regular Sunday worshipers.  Let’s keep hoping and praying for continued good news regarding COVID infections in NY State and our neighboring states of NJ and CT.  I expect the governors will open things further based on that information. Let me say again that I continue to be impressed with and grateful to everyone who has worked so hard to help us be so far along with our preparations!  We will be ready when the approval is given.

Just this week I’ve saved for re-reading some news stories about COVID brain, How to Deal with Bullies, Emotional Numbing and Withdrawal caused by stressors including the pandemic, economic worries, uncertainty about the future, and anxiety regarding the cultural changes we are experiencing.  Adaptability and a heart at peace are needed now, more than ever, to face the challenges each day brings.  I hope that you are remembering the stages of grief (Denial, Bargaining, Depression, Anger and Acceptance – not necessary in any order).  As we go about our daily life, it’s helpful to remember that these emotions are emerging within us and others around us.  As the old saying goes “Different strokes for different folks” applies – as we each respond differently to challenges and to our day to day experience with the grief we feel over the dramatic departure of “normal life”.  Will that old way of life ever return?  Who knows?  So, we must also remain adaptable and remember that change creates both chaos and opportunity.  While things are no longer as they were, this is a wonderful time to assess each part of life and reconsider how we want our lives and the world to become as we move ahead.  Personally, I see positive changes as families draw closer together, return to “at home” activities, and reach out to explore the world in ways they may never have before.  For example, kayaks and camping gear, bicycles and yard games are very difficult to find, right now, partly because so many people want them.  This may be a good thing for our children and communities as it seems to offer a return to a simpler, relaxed home and family-centered life.  Of course, we are still learning what all this will mean in the long-term and for our families and communities, but the opportunities are there to make positive changes instead of longing for the past and living with a focus on the negatives and challenges this time has brought.  And of course, there is God at work in all of this, guiding and encouraging us to keep within us the hope, love, joy and peace that bring God’s active presence into the world – even during dark and uncertain times.   Keep the faith!  God hasn’t finished with us, yet! 

Now until next time – remember, I love you and I need you to survive!

Peace,
Betsy

July 12, 2020

Dear Friends in Christ,

Greetings to you in the name of Jesus Christ, the healer of our brokenness and the Savior of the World!
It’s hard to believe we’re already nearly half way through July!  Where does the time go?  Even in these days of continued social distancing it seems like things are on a fast paced schedule.  Businesses and other public places are opening up as things seem to return to “normal” in many ways, yet we’re still not able to open the church for worship.  I don’t know about you but sometimes I find it’s challenging to stay patient!  Then I look at the statistics and the infection numbers rising across our country and I’m reminded we’re still in the midst of a pandemic that spreads, perhaps most quickly, by entering rooms full of people and through breathing the same air.  When I think about that, I remember that waiting until we are fully prepared and have even more information about staying safe, is the best thing we can do as we continue to pray for all who are infected, the health care workers, our world, our nation and our community.  Don’t forget the 8 am and/or 8 pm prayer time which allows us to join together with others in prayer – even while we’re apart! 

Now for the latest update on where we are in getting ready for opening at the United Ministry.  The COVID_29 Task Force has approved the protocols to be sent this week to the District Superintendent, Karen Monk.  We are hoping that we will have our approval for opening for worship very soon.  The next step is getting all the worship technology and equipment installed, so that we can worship in the sanctuary and offer the service remotely.  It appears that we will have things in place by the end of this month for opening, hopefully, in August.  The last phase is to have the NYS approval for worship gatherings at 33% or more of the capacity which will allow anyone who normally attends worship at United Ministry to be present.  The present number would require our worship capacity to remain below our normal attendance and might mean that not everyone could participate, which is unacceptable to me.  I will keep you updated on this as soon as there is more information.  My only concern is that the coronavirus infections spreading across other states might cause a spike or some kind of increase of infections in the tristate area that will keep us on “hold”.   And, of course, my primary concern is for the safety and well-being of us all, here in Delhi and across the country.  Let’s hope and pray that people will take mask-wearing and social distancing seriously for their own safety and the safety of others!

As the work on the church property continues, the trustees are holding work days in July and August and need help completing some of the projects on their list.  These include working on sidewalks and areas outside, installing hand sanitizers throughout the building, and other improvements and upgrades.  These projects will help keep the building and property in safe condition and also help us to be ready for reopening.  Please watch for the information about dates and times, along with a project list you can sign-up for.  I hope you will consider doing whatever you’re able to help us be organized and ready!  We do wear masks and socially distance whenever we work, but it’s also a wonderful opportunity for fellowship and reconnecting with others we may not have seen during the past few months. 

As I reflect on all that’s happening in our lives, right now, I do urge you to remember the my weekly updates of the past few months and what I offered regarding the stages of grief and overcoming challenges with change.  We are in such a time of upheaval that it might be helpful to read and re-read that information and keep it close.  It isn’t only the COVID pandemic, but the demonstrations and public outcry that is leading us to address racial and social inequalities in our nation, uncertainty about our economy, continued anxiety caused by our distancing from family and friends, lack of clarity about school openings, businesses, health care facilities, etc.   It’s creating and abiding by new policies and protocols for safety.  And then, there’s just life itself.  Sometimes it can feel like too much at once.  I want you to know that there are many times that I feel overwhelmed and I’m sure you do, too.  It’s important to remember that everyone is in the same place as we continue to figure out how to live during this uncertain time.    Even though the stress is always there, this is the time to take care of ourselves as we remember to breathe, to relax, get as much rest as we need, to enjoy those things that are blessings in our lives, to appreciate that God is at work in the world during this crisis, and to be thankful.  Yes, thankful.  Why don’t you join with me in the daily practice of counting three blessings as you give thanks for them?   Then add to that your own, personal, greatest challenge of the day and thank God for it.  See, we don’t always think of challenges as blessings but they are!  The challenge you’re facing is the growing edge in your spiritual life and it is where God is working with you most of all to help you to grow and deepen your faith.  Gratitude for the challenge will replenish within us the gifts of love, hope, peace and joy that we all need get us through this time and into a bright new future!

In the meantime, stay safe and well.  Know that I love you and I need you to survive!

Peace,
Betsy